Harry Met Sally Rule

by Lori
(Texas)

I can not find it in the Bible but have seen it in here before. Question: Should husband be reaching out to women and lose track of time or sense of other things that have to be taken care of? Or if it is a nice looking woman he gives them a hug (bye).

I see his eyes when he looks at other women and although I do know he is talking about God, he is also learning a lot of intimate things about this person. Today he went to church at 8am and I was not feeling good so I decided to go later. Of course the women is at church because we invited her and here we are over an hour later and he is calling from her phone to see what I am doing... He said use the truck I said I cant because the car seat for my grandson is in the car. I did tell him firmly to bring my car home now.

Am I over reacting? Or what would be the most Christ like way to handle it? I have brought things like this to his attention before and it changes for a little while and then here we are again. I use the Harry met Sally rule because it is not good for opposites to be talking abut personal problems, or intimate things, it leaves room for anything to happen.

Thanks for letting me write my feelings out....